If you begin corresponding with a person with a view to a possible romantic relationship, remain cautious even if the relationship seems to be progressing very well.
These scammers are very skilled at building trust and know how to make vulnerable victims fall in love with them.
Anyways, he's probably pretty trustworthy, because look below, at the stock photo girl he posted on his page! A lot of it is basic, but not SO basic that it hasn't kept hundreds and thousands of online daters from violating these EXTREMELY BASIC principles anyway. Make your message one that someone — anyone — could conceivably want to answer. Chiara Atik at How About We has an important checkpoint for that message you're about to send off: Does it PROVE you read the profile of the person you're sending it to? Because then he or she isn't going to respond (unless you are unreasonably hot, in which case, what's your deal? You might think your boilerplate message is a clever one, but anyone who's had an online profile for more than two weeks can seriously smell the arrival of one in her inbox.
The best thing about online dating is the fact that people who join these sites are typically looking for someone who shares mutual interests, goals, desires, etc.
People are looking for compatibility, and not for a one night fling - like you find at a bar (again, this is typically the case, not always).
Writing an interesting question or two can't guarantee a response, but NOTHING CAN. Don't waste your time and don't waste anyone else's — you have to put in a little work this way, but just do it.
If we wanted to read your profile, we'd have gone to it.An online dating message is not the same (thank GOD) as a job application.