It’s not just that women don’t deserve this terrible behavior — no one does.
Women are becoming so jaded from experiencing this behavior that they don’t believe good men are out there or that a forever love story exists anymore, and that’s really heartbreaking. You might think it’s hilarious to pass your time and get a cheap thrill out of getting a rise out of a complete stranger, but it really makes you no different than a childhood bully who claims to be a grown man.
“They're just trying to strike at whatever our insecurities are.
You were just interested a second ago, and now you're saying, ‘you have a fat ugly nose.’”To this, add the anonymity of online communication and the ambiguity that results when two strangers try to kindle a romantic connection through a medium that can't convey sarcasm, body language, or even a smile.
Over the years, I’ve received a lot of awful messages from guys online, and I’m definitely not alone in this.
Women are constantly being treated badly by some dirtbag hiding behind his keyboard and I’ve had enough of it. That’s not to say I’m going to publicly humiliate you because I’m not that petty, but I could if I wanted to.
Lola is completely free and will change your life — she’ll help you feel hotter and sexier, attract better guys, and find love faster. She's a cliche lover of wine, sushi, all things Parisian and spiking her coffee with Baileys.If no one calls you out for behaving like an imbecile, you’re never going to learn, so please allow me to step up to the plate and say what many women are afraid to — you’re not a nice person and you clearly have some issues.I’m done responding to your douchebag remarks and I won’t stand for it anymore. Andrea Wesley Andrea is a Thirty-Something freelance writer living in the suburbs of Vancouver, Canada with her long term boyfriend and ridiculous ginger tabby.Newsflash — a grown man wouldn’t insult me online to validate himself.
I really hope you can aspire to be a better person because hurting a complete stranger and killing my hopefulness to find love is the most soulless thing a person can do. If no one calls you out, you’re never going to stop.If you weren’t interested, you shouldn’t have fucking replied at all! I hate that men think they can talk to women like that.